Monday, August 18, 2008


I'm a bad friend.

No really.

As much as I love the people I get to associate with (that includes family), I've had a really hard time catching up with people lately. I really want to know what people are doing, but I've been so self-involved that I haven't caught up on anyone's blogs in a long time.

That doesn't mean I don't care, or that I'm completely clueless. But I'm finally pulling my head out of the sand and realizing that these wonderful people I love have been dealing with their own trials. Like moving and tough pregnancies and health issues and house problems and money issues and difficult children, to name a few.

In fact, a lot of what other people are dealing with sound very familiar to me. I'm sure that means I need to spend more time concerned with other people and less time concerned with myself.

In short, I love you. I really do. I'm sorry and I'll make it up to you. I'll pay attention and listen and catch up on my reading. I'm getting there. Please be patient. :)


Succubus and Saint said...

I said before pregnant = psycho. . well pregnant also = self involved. You really kind of have to be. Your baby depends on your well being so you need to take care of yourself. You have a lot of thoughts and worries on your mind for you and the baby. Also. . when the baby is born the attention goes all to her so you need to give yourself plenty of attention. You deserve it after all.

BeatlesDiva said...

Heather and Brent,
You two are some of the sweetest people I know and I would never think of either of you as a bad friend.

Most people that know you, know that you have a lot going on right now and are willing to undestand if you don't know the details of people lives.

Just keep the blogs going so we know what you are up to :-D

~ Nic